5 Dating Lessons from 280 Failed Marriages
Educational Dating Advice
On a mission to make divorce and domestic violence plagues of the past, the Family Love Teacher is requesting every Single person to study this unique dating advice from 280 failed marriages.
The Family Love Teacher believes that sharing these dating lessons to persuade more people to learn how these 280 marriages failed, why they failed, and how Singles can use their unpleasant experiences to learn how to foresee and manage the root causes of marital failure:
1. At the time of tying the knot, each of those 280 adults believed that their marriage was going to last forever, but that did not happen! They all learned this hard lesson; that being good and wanting to be successfully married is not enough on its own, because the success of your marriage truly depends on your husband or your wife. They proved that you cannot sustain a love relationship single handedly; it takes two to succeed. Advice to Singles: You must learn how to choose a lover who is right for you, and also finds you ideal for them, and the best time to learn is before dating and landing in the costly marriage problems.
2. They all rushed to fall in love, and failed to see the red flags that were right in their faces from the time they started dating. They confessed that they were emotionally attached, and hoped they would be able to change their former fiancée(s) habits after wedlock. They learned this hard dating lesson, that you cannot successfully change another person if that person is not willing to change on their own. They wished someone had taught them this love secret. They also learned that even with a prenup, it is not smart to force a mismatch, because it always leads to domestic violence and a future breakup.
3. They all regretted not knowing what they should have known in time, to make the right marital decisions. They were instead consumed by the excitement of the new relationship, the sweet gifts, the new places to visit, and planning their wedding, before truly knowing or evaluating the person they were committing their love to. They learned that regardless of your feelings, it is vital to learn how to control your love emotions and target your dating decisions towards meeting your long term needs.
4. They all confessed that it was a costly experience; and wished someone had taught them how to guard their hearts from the wrong person! They would not have ignored this dating advice to follow the wrong way that wrecked their love relationships. But the other sad discovery was that, many of those whose hearts had been repeatedly bruised, had lost confidence and were afraid of trusting or loving anyone again.
5. They were all pained not by the divorce itself, but the fact that their divorce was preventable, had they learned how-to interpret the advance warning signs they saw during the initial dating period. They learned that making choices unthinkingly; and then hoping for the best, is being reckless with life. Passionate singles need to invest time to learn how to foresee and manage these premarital risks and uncertainties. Loving is an important lifetime decision, and you have to know what you are doing every step of the way in choosing the right spouse who also finds you right to them.
Now the good news:
The Family Love Teacher studied 1,064 successfully and unsuccessfully married adults, and developed a decision-making tool that helps Singles to visualize their marital future. This dating tool is helping more Singles to minimize the influence of guesswork in making this important decision. “This decision-making tool gives the Single person instant feedback to prevent a mismatch. More Singles are getting in total control and making the right dating decisions the first time,” says the Family Love Teacher.
He says that “This study revealed the existence of a clear path to a successful and lasting love relationship, and every Single person needs to invest quality time to learn how to unlock these consequential secrets in dating and relationship building. With this essential dating advice, there is no excuse for wasting time loving and marrying the wrong person and then divorcing later.” He has recorded this prerequisite dating knowledge and all the answers Single have always wanted to know on a on audio dating guide titled How to Choose Your True Lifetime Lover. It keeps you ahead of the game. It is detailed, it tells you Step 1 do this, Step 2 do this, Step 3 do this, up to Step 10. Priced at $24.00 this self-help audio book is available in the good bookstores.
If you are interested in this hard-won wisdom, Click Here to Order
Remember this:
The more dating advice and knowledge you possess, the smarter the decisions you'll make. You will put yourself on the first track to happiness and inner peace. You'll learn the consequential dating tips and ideas you need to know to secure your love relationship. You will learn how to build a joyful family, and avoid these common marriage problems.
For the answers to the questions you've always wanted to know -
Click Here to Order the Dating Solution.
Alex Mugume is a Family Love Teacher. He teaches Singles how to find their True Husband or True Wife out of a Large Database of Singles. Singles now do not need to waste their money and time dating and falling in love with the wrong people. He is also the author of "Success Mindsets for the Winning Couple". More info is available at http://www.skillfuldating.com/.
CLICK TO LISTEN to what you are missing: (for members only)
P.S. To learn how to take the mystery out of dating and matching, register for Dating Class at http://skillfuldating.com/Dating_Class.html
P.P.S. If interested in Free Dating Reports, Click Here to Sign Up
On a mission to make divorce and domestic violence plagues of the past, the Family Love Teacher is requesting every Single person to study this unique dating advice from 280 failed marriages.
The Family Love Teacher believes that sharing these dating lessons to persuade more people to learn how these 280 marriages failed, why they failed, and how Singles can use their unpleasant experiences to learn how to foresee and manage the root causes of marital failure:
1. At the time of tying the knot, each of those 280 adults believed that their marriage was going to last forever, but that did not happen! They all learned this hard lesson; that being good and wanting to be successfully married is not enough on its own, because the success of your marriage truly depends on your husband or your wife. They proved that you cannot sustain a love relationship single handedly; it takes two to succeed. Advice to Singles: You must learn how to choose a lover who is right for you, and also finds you ideal for them, and the best time to learn is before dating and landing in the costly marriage problems.
2. They all rushed to fall in love, and failed to see the red flags that were right in their faces from the time they started dating. They confessed that they were emotionally attached, and hoped they would be able to change their former fiancée(s) habits after wedlock. They learned this hard dating lesson, that you cannot successfully change another person if that person is not willing to change on their own. They wished someone had taught them this love secret. They also learned that even with a prenup, it is not smart to force a mismatch, because it always leads to domestic violence and a future breakup.
3. They all regretted not knowing what they should have known in time, to make the right marital decisions. They were instead consumed by the excitement of the new relationship, the sweet gifts, the new places to visit, and planning their wedding, before truly knowing or evaluating the person they were committing their love to. They learned that regardless of your feelings, it is vital to learn how to control your love emotions and target your dating decisions towards meeting your long term needs.
4. They all confessed that it was a costly experience; and wished someone had taught them how to guard their hearts from the wrong person! They would not have ignored this dating advice to follow the wrong way that wrecked their love relationships. But the other sad discovery was that, many of those whose hearts had been repeatedly bruised, had lost confidence and were afraid of trusting or loving anyone again.
5. They were all pained not by the divorce itself, but the fact that their divorce was preventable, had they learned how-to interpret the advance warning signs they saw during the initial dating period. They learned that making choices unthinkingly; and then hoping for the best, is being reckless with life. Passionate singles need to invest time to learn how to foresee and manage these premarital risks and uncertainties. Loving is an important lifetime decision, and you have to know what you are doing every step of the way in choosing the right spouse who also finds you right to them.
Now the good news:
The Family Love Teacher studied 1,064 successfully and unsuccessfully married adults, and developed a decision-making tool that helps Singles to visualize their marital future. This dating tool is helping more Singles to minimize the influence of guesswork in making this important decision. “This decision-making tool gives the Single person instant feedback to prevent a mismatch. More Singles are getting in total control and making the right dating decisions the first time,” says the Family Love Teacher.
He says that “This study revealed the existence of a clear path to a successful and lasting love relationship, and every Single person needs to invest quality time to learn how to unlock these consequential secrets in dating and relationship building. With this essential dating advice, there is no excuse for wasting time loving and marrying the wrong person and then divorcing later.” He has recorded this prerequisite dating knowledge and all the answers Single have always wanted to know on a on audio dating guide titled How to Choose Your True Lifetime Lover. It keeps you ahead of the game. It is detailed, it tells you Step 1 do this, Step 2 do this, Step 3 do this, up to Step 10. Priced at $24.00 this self-help audio book is available in the good bookstores.
If you are interested in this hard-won wisdom, Click Here to Order
Remember this:
The more dating advice and knowledge you possess, the smarter the decisions you'll make. You will put yourself on the first track to happiness and inner peace. You'll learn the consequential dating tips and ideas you need to know to secure your love relationship. You will learn how to build a joyful family, and avoid these common marriage problems.
For the answers to the questions you've always wanted to know -
Click Here to Order the Dating Solution.
Alex Mugume is a Family Love Teacher. He teaches Singles how to find their True Husband or True Wife out of a Large Database of Singles. Singles now do not need to waste their money and time dating and falling in love with the wrong people. He is also the author of "Success Mindsets for the Winning Couple". More info is available at http://www.skillfuldating.com/.
CLICK TO LISTEN to what you are missing: (for members only)
P.S. To learn how to take the mystery out of dating and matching, register for Dating Class at http://skillfuldating.com/Dating_Class.html
P.P.S. If interested in Free Dating Reports, Click Here to Sign Up
You missed out one vital element that I know is true in almost every case, namely, at the time of the marriage or thereabouts, we all know from a 'gut feeling' that it isn't right. *I've been married four times and only one of those lasted 24 years and I felt certain was the right choice. The research is flawed if you didn't get that from anyone!
The Family Love Teacher replies..
Thank you Paul,
If you re-read these dating lessons, you will find that, "they all rushed to fall in love, and failed to see the red flags that were right in their faces from the time they started dating.... they hoped they would be able to change their former fiancee(s) habits after wedlock ....pained that their divorce was preventable, had they learned how to interpret the advance warning signs they saw during the pre-wedlock period"
Yes I agree with you, but my mission is to teach Singles to stop relying on these blind guesses. That is why I am teaching this advance knowledge and empowering them with a new decision-making tool to enable them to make the right decision the first time . I certainly believe that it is cheaper to learn from other people's mistakes than to learn from your own mistakes. Every Single person needs learn this essential premarital knowledge. It is cheaper and smarter to read than to divorce again, ....
Paul, you have a lot of experience. Please teach us anything else I may have missed out to empower the Singles of this generation. I'd love to hear from you.
To your utmost success,
Alex Mugume
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