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This workbook is based on a 4 year in-depth study of over 1,064 successfully and unsuccessfully married adults.  Guess what!  Analysis of their relationships revealed amazing patterns with invaluable knowledge that lead to the development of this "10 Step Smart Lover's Model" as a tool for managing risks and uncertainties in choosing a spouse. 

This study revealed that there is a clear path that leads to a successful and lasting love relationship.  You do not have to fail in your relationship ever again.  It is all predictable.  You can learn how to make lifetime winning decisions.  It is all in this workbook, 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage, Self-Help Secrets for the Smart Lover,  by Alex Mugume, now available in many good bookstores.

These are the benefits you will get from using this workbook:

· You will learn how to discover your TRUE self, and unique compatibility features.

· You will learn how to design the profile of your true wife or husband; how to attract that specific lover like magic, and how to start your marriage from a rock solid foundation.

· You will develop the skills to avoid the heartache of a break up.

· You will learn how to use the, "10-Step Smart Lover's Model", as a decision-making tool that helps you to foresee the future of your partnership before you become emotionally attached to him/her.  This tool gives you a structured procedure to guide and protect your future, to make sure that you get what you dreamed of.

· You will learn how to use the, "Smart Lover's Exit Strategy Flow Chart", to help you manage the unknown risks and uncertainties with ease during the earliest stages of dating, and identify the presence of red flags you would not otherwise have seen.  (With these 2 decision-making tools and knowledge, you will make divorce and domestic violence plagues of the past).

· By building on 40,000 years of other people's experiences, you'll increase your knowledge base.  You will learn the essential consequential secrets you must know in order to create lifetime happiness in your relationship.  You'll avoid the common marital mistakes (skillfully).

· You will learn how to become a better spouse, and guarantee a great love relationship.  You will learn the develop the 15 success-mindsets you must possess to make your love relationship richer, freer, and more sensational.

· This workbook makes an invaluable gift for all your friends and loved ones who desire not to be just married, but to have a great marriage.  This book empowers you with the futuristic knowledge you need in order to create the future you want.  It shows and tells you what you must do, and what you must not to do, to eliminate the unpleasant surprises out of your love relationship.  You will learn the essential base knowledge and understanding needed to build a joyful family.

So now you know.  There is no reason to bruise your heart again.  There is no reason to make more 50/50 guesses and the self-sabotaging shortcuts.   It is smarter to spend a few hours learning how to make a lifetime winning decision, than to be sorry.  Whatever you do, do not miss out on these best loving skills.

Remember:  The more marital knowledge you possess, the smarter the decisions you'll make in making your love relationship more fulfilling.

About the Author:

Alex Mugume is a construction risk management specialist who did not foresee the looming issues in his relationship before he married.  Using the techniques in his professional life, he set out to study and develop a solution that would help people to visualize their marital future, and minimize the temptation for shortcuts and guesswork in making such a lifetime decision.  Alex believes that the insights in this book will enable you to create a successful love relationship. 

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What the Readers are saying about this rare workbook:

· "Dear Counselor, Have you read the "10 Steps to Success in Love an Marriage"?  I recommend that you read it and suggest it as mandatory reading for all your patients.  I have read this book, and it is worth every minute spent.  I have handled more than 100 divorce cases, and wish I had this book to share with my Clients at the time", Sydney Gordon

· “No other relationship book comes close in giving you the facts and tools you need to make lifetime winning decisions.  This is the best gift of success in print.  Do not let a small investment of $18 keep you from protecting your heart and future”. David Foreman

· "I believe this is the book of the century on "rock solid" relationships.  Many of us would have benefited greatly had we had this instruction to make our very best informed decision of our lifetime.  Alex did the research and the results and high impact on the reader.  It really gives you much to think about and you can put it into immediate use whatever your relationship status may be. Great work!!!" Sheree Victorian, Author.

· "This is a wonderful book on relationships and how to find your "true" true love.  It outlines the steps to go through in a relationship and the "signals" that it is not going to work.  This book is a must have for all the singles, divorcees and even married couples who want to be better in marriage". Debbie Gordon

· "This book is great, it teaches you how to foresee and prevent a mismatch before wedlock.  I'd have paid a fortune to learn this knowledge before wasting my past 10 years in stressful relationships"  George Patterson

· "Lack of this exact understanding has misled America, and destroyed many families and communities.  This should be a must read by everyone who desires to build a joyful family" Stacey Williams.

· "And why wait until in the marriage?   I think every single person should be encouraged to read this book.  It is so empowering, it is simply awesome.  Cheers to all the Smart Lovers", Tony Edwards.

· "Truly this is the best book that makes sense to me.  What do you expect when you make a 50/50 guess? That is right, 50/50 results, and that is why we are having a 50% divorce rate.  Stop the insanity.  Use the decision-making tools in this workbook".  Joe Joe.

· "The tools needed to begin and make a relationship, are enlightening, educational, and testimonial", L, Lewis.

· "This book impressed me. Learning about myself first.  It has made me look closely at my life and where I am going", Karen K

· "Alex, you are God sent. You are the most insightful teacher on this subject.  You made it so easy for me to understand.  Your steps and structured thinking style are truly phenomenal".  John Reagan.

· "The SLM (Smart Lover's Model) provides examples of well-conducted research studies and deep analysis of the thought patterns of men and women who have both excelled as well as bombed out in relationships", Pat Williams, Chicago Defender (April 13th, 2004)

· "We are in the Information Age, but many people still shun knowledge. It pisses me seeing many great women and men divorcing and wasting away in jail for a domestic violence charge that was preventable from day One.  Everybody needs to read to learn the smart way". Peter J King

Reasons why this is the #1 gift book of Love for Joyful Families:

1. It is cheaper than divorce, domestic violence, and/or an empty shell marriage.

2. It teaches you the missing lessons from the failed marriages.

3. It teaches you the best relationship lessons from the successful marriages.

4. It teaches you the best dating skills to help you choose your true spouse.

5. It helps you to understand/differentiate the myths and facts in marriage.

6. It helps you to make better decisions, and avoid the common marital mistakes.

7. It teaches you how to start your relationship from a rock solid foundation.

8. It teaches you the best seeds to plant in your love relationship.

9. It teaches you how to become a better spouse and guarantee a joyful family.

10. It teaches you how to develop visioning skills to predict your marital future.

11. It teaches you how to re-invent your marital destiny.

12. It enables you to teach and influence your teenagers to make winning decisions.

13. It brings joy to the whole family.

14. It is a great reference book. You'll use it over and over in growing your love relationship.

15. It is a useful gift to give to your friends and loved ones - giving them a head start with the gift of love.  You will have given them lifetime joy, enabling them to create more inner peace and enjoy everlasting passion.  

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Answers to the questions you’ve always wanted to know:

Read through, and see how much you are going to gain from here.

Question # 1:  How do you skillfully choose your ideal lover from a large range of singles?  (It starts with becoming more knowledgeable and increasing your understanding of this decision-making skill.  The “10 Step Smart Lover’s Model” helps you to succeed in making lifetime winning decisions /choosing your true lifetime Lover.  See page 118 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question # 2: Why do many people fail in their marriages?  What are the 11 underlying root causes of marital failure? (Read page 27 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question # 3: Why do intimate couples cheat on each other, divorce or separate?  How does one suddenly fall out of love?  What are the secrets to marital success?  What do you need to do to keep your love growing stronger, even in tough times?  (Read the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #4:  Why do many people keep on repeating the same mistakes in marriage?  What are the 9 commonly believed myths in marriage?  (Read page 33 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)  Listen to this Track 2.

Question #5:  What decision-making tool do you use to tell whether s/he is the right person for you as a lifetime lover?  (See page 162 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #6:  What techniques do smart people use in managing the risks and uncertainties during the pre-wedlock period?  (Read page 125 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #7:  What are the common unacceptable habits that cause problems in a love relationship, over the long term?  (Read page 137 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #8:  What is the single most important factor to consider in choosing a lifetime lover?  (Read page 91 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #9: What are the critical factors to evaluate in determining whether you are on or off track to your dreamed destiny?  (See page 181, “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #10: What are the advantages and disadvantages of using a prenup?  Learn more from other people’s lessons.  (Read pages 127 – 130 “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #11:  What are the 11 things that people fear when they are dating?  How do you overcome this fear? (See pages 116 – 125 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #12:  Stop.  What are the 10 important things you must do before you start dating?  (Read pages 120 – 124 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #13:  How do you develop your marital risk control and risk tolerance zones?  (See page 125 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #14:  How do you tell whether the decision is from your inner person or outer person?  This is a master secret you have to learn to guarantee your success!  (Read pages 63 – 72 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #15:  What do you need to do to re-invent yourself?  (Read pages 73 – 85 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #16:  “How can two walk together if they are not equally matched” (Amos 3:3).  Okay, what are you supposed to match?  How do you do it?  You have to know.  It is smarter to learn how to match, than to delegate this responsibility to some other third party.  (Read pages 86-110 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #17:  Why is it important to use the Smart Lover’s Exit Strategies?  (Read page 141 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #18:  Why is it important to use the Smart Lover’s Exit Strategy Flow Chart in the dating stage?  (See page 144 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #19: What are the 14 questions you must answer to save yourself from falling in love with the person who is not right for you for the long term?  (Read page 152 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #20:  What are the unique advantages of managing marital risks using the Smart Lover’s Exit Strategy Flow Chart?  (See page 154 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question # 21: What are the critical steps that must never be ignored or taken for granted in choosing a lifetime lover?  What are the 12 major benefits of using the 10 Step Smart Lover’s Model in CHOOSING a Spouse?  (See page 158 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #22: What is the purpose of Step # 1?  Why you should care; and what you need to do in step #1, to create your blueprint to $uccess in your love relationship (See page 164 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #23: How do you design the profile of the person you want as your ideal lifetime lover?  This is your time to learn this process protocol.  (See page 165 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #24:  What are the most important things you must do on your first date, to ensure that you do not waste time with an impostor who is going to lie, and ruin your quality of life?  (Read page 172 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #25: What do you look out for on a follow-up date, to evaluate your whether s/he is ideal for you or not?  (See page 176 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #26: How do you get total disclosure from him/her on these follow up dates?  (Learn the strategies on page 181 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #27:  Why is the “timing” element essential before you make your final decision to commit your love to her/him?  (See page 185 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #28: Why should you commit?  What is the purpose?  What you need to do?  What are the benefits of commitment?  (Read page 190 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #29: You have committed your love to her/him.  What do you need to do to stay victorious in your love relationship?  (See page 191)

Question #30: What are the 15 success mindsets to possess in order to become a Better Spouse, to guarantee a great love relationship?  (See page 194 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”, and Listen to this audio-book “How to Keep Your Lover Successfully”)

Question #31: What are the killer words you must never say in your love relationship?  Which words are magic?  How do you say them, and where should they come from? What are the best techniques of effective communication in love?  (See page 201 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #32:  Learn this extra secret to help you in growing your love relationship successfully?  (See page 203 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #33: Who are you modeling from to enrich your love relationship, and to BECOME THE BEST LOVER TO YOUR SPOUSE?  (See page 217 – 218 in the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”)

Question #34:  Is there a formula for success in creating a love relationship that lasts the test of time?  YES!  If you digest the insights in this book, you will realize that marriage is all predictable!  You can foresee it all.  You will not be surprised!  You can create ALL THE SUCCESS you want!  If you are “visual”, please come to my free seminars, I will show you how the process works.  You can create the kind of love life you want, and you will be glad you did. 

Finally, now is your time, to say YES to your dream, and to make this the turning point of your life.  You have waited enough.  Put these skills to work.  Start winning today.  There is no time like the present.  Don’t miss out on these new and best loving skills.  Reserve your copies today.  It is a winning decision.  This is your moment to win.  You can do it!

This book makes a lifetime GIFT for both the young and old.  You will want to add it to your personal collection to receive all these benefits.  Click Here to Order the “10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage”

Investment needed to own this book: $28.00
Investment needed to download the MP3 audio book is $24.00
Knowledge is power.  Don't let this small investment keep you from protecting your future. 

To Your Utmost Success in 10 Steps or Less,

Alex Mugume

P.S. If you have any problem placing the order, please do not hesitate to email me at: alex "at" bestlovingskills.com; just replace "at" with @ sign.    

P.P.S.  I am also available for speaking and/or teaching engagements and personal consultations.  Details at, http://www.skillfuldating.com  

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