Dear Reader, we have received hundreds of testimonials from satisfied readers who have read the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage, and also attended my seminars. 

 Here is what they are saying:

• “Alex, you are a true Coach.  I love your teaching style.  You made me understand all the real life issues that used to puzzle me.  Trust me: You are the best teacher in this field”

         Beth Ford

• “I’ve read your book 6 times in a period of one year.  I never get tired of reading it.  The 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage is a must read”

        Kathy Harris

• “The 10 Steps to Success is the one book I recommend to every single friend of mine.  It is packed with value.  I would have paid $10,000 to read it 4 years ago before I messed up my life.  Every person should be empowered not to make an inferior decision before wedlock” 
  Suzanne Wilson
• “This is a wonderful book on relationships and how to find your ‘true’ true love.  It outlines the steps to go through in a relationship and the “signals” that it is not going to work.  This book is a must have for all singles, divorcees and even married couples who want to be better in marriage” 
   Debbie Gordon
• “I was very excited by the Smart Lover’s Exit Strategy, and the 10-Step Smart Lover’s Model.  I was impressed by the fact that if I know where to begin from, and the right decisions in each of those steps, I can guarantee a successful marriage!  I was also impressed by the success styles of thinking that one has to possess in order to keep their spouse’s love successfully. Amazing approach based on God’s Instructions that I always took for granted”.

        Jean Smith

• “I believe this is the book of the century on “rock solid” relationships.  Many of us would have benefited greatly had we had this instruction to make our very best informed decision of our lifetime.  Alex did the research and the results are high impact on the reader.  It really gives you much to think about and you can put it into immediate use whatever your relationship status may be.  Great work!!!”

       Sheree Victorian, Author, http://www.vsheinspirations.com/

• “You are right.  Relying on “luck” has led to so much pain in many people’s marriage lives.  This is a skill we can learn instead of relying on 50/50 luck.  I really feel that every single man and woman should be encouraged to attend your seminars to learn how to prevent the misery of a wrong husband or wife, divorce, and domestic violence.
   Betty Jefferson
• And why wait until in the marriage?  I think every single person should be encouraged to read this book.  It is so empowering, it is simply awesome.  Cheers to all the Smart Lovers”
  Tony Edwards
• My life has changed; our intimacy is increasing at a great rate because we are satisfying …! This is a true love secret, and nobody shares it, and I do not why?”
  Ted - AZ
• “I always understood this easily in the Biblical context of being in the flesh and being in the spirit.  Your approach gave it a new face.  I tell your story every where I go, and people are impressed by the deep underlying wisdom”
   Joe Williams
• “Truly this is the best book that makes sense to me.  What do you expect when you make a 50/50 guess?  That is right, 50/50 results, and that is why we are having a 50% divorce rate and millions in jail for domestic violence charges.  Stop the insanity.  Use the decision-making tools in this work book”
   Joe Joe
• “This book is a must read for everyone.  For the single person it is necessary to help you avoid any mistakes in the future especially if you want to be married for keeps; this book helps you keep your marriage on a sure footing.  What makes this book even better is that it is Bible based and where else would you get the best advice?  You are sure to be blessed as you read it.”
  Rahab Wiba
• Impressed by: “The tools needed to begin and make the relationship work.  Enlightening, educational, and testimonial”
  L Lewis
• Impressed by: “Learning about myself first.  It has made me look closely at my life and where I am going”.
  Karen K
• “This book has empowered me.  I am a better wife, and my husband now tells me everyday.  I am also helping him to become a better husband and father, all because I was able to increase understanding on how a marriage works.  Thank you. Many families are going to be happier because of this book. May God reward you”
  Sophie Simons
• “Alex, you are God sent.  You are the most insightful teacher on this subject.  You made it so easy for me to understand.  Your steps and the structured thinking style are truly phenomenal”. 
   John Reagan
• “The SLM provides examples of well-conducted research studies and deep analysis of the thought patterns of men and women who have both excelled as well as bombed out in relationships.  
   Chicago Defender (April, 13th 2004)
• “Been looking at the divorce stats.  Our national average at 900,000 finalized divorces annually, breaks down to 2,465 divorces each day, breaks down further to 102 finalized divorces per hour of day and night!  This truly sucks when you consider that these stats do not include the on-going divorce cases, the domestic violence cases, plus the murders. Add the pain and bitterness that is inflicted on their innocent children!  It’s too much s…. No wonder many folks are scared to open their hearts!  Alex, you need to start teaching your best loving skills in high schools and colleges.  I am pretty certain you will be of great help to many whose lives are not f---ed up yet” 
  Peter Hansen
• “This book can help anybody to create lifetime happiness as their marital destiny” 
   Emma Tyson

To you, my Valued Readers,

Thank you for visiting.  If you liked quality of the wisdom being shared on this subject thinking, please forward this link to your friends.  Friends do not let their friends bruise their heart.  Tell them they are missing a lot.  Let them know about these best loving skills and how they will be empowered to create more success in their love relationship.

Do you have a friend who is looking for a soul mate?  Advise them to learn this essential pre-marital skill before they go out dating.  It is smarter to sacrifice a few hours learning this decision-making skill than to be sorry with a broken heart.  That is what friends are for!  Don’t let them ruin their life by choosing the wrong husband or wife.  Or else give them this Step-by-step Dating Guide on Audio, titled How to Choose Your True Lifetime Lover as a gift of success.  PREVIEW and DOWNLOAD if from Google Book Search onto your PC.  For the hard copy, please order online at, http://Shop.BestLovingSkills.com/  Orders received today, are shipped tomorrow.  Don't miss out on your turn to live a meaningful and fulfilling love relationship. 

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Thinking of a lifetime gift to give to a loved one?  Think of the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.  You will have given them lifetime joy, because this book will teach them the in-depth knowledge they need to simplify their love relationship, to enjoy everlasting passion and create more inner peace.

Once again, thank you for stopping by, and do me a favor and tell at least 2 of your best friends about the existence of this unique dating and relationship advice.  That is what friends are for!