The answers you’ve always wanted to know:

Question # 1: How do you skillfully choose your ideal lover from a large range of singles?  It all starts with becoming more knowledgeable; the more knowledge you possess, the smarter the decisions you will make.  This book shares with you over 40,000 years of other people's experiences, to give you a deeper understanding on this subject, and also teaches you How to choose your true Lifetime Lover using the 10 Step Smart Lover's Model. - See page 118 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question # 2: Why do many people fail in their marriages?  What are the 11 underlying root causes of marital failure?  Marital failure is caused by lack of the right pre-marital education.  And as a result, many people make marital decisions based on a 50/50 guess.  They do not know how to skillfully make the best decisions that stand the test of time.  Read the 10 reasons given by the interviewed people beginning from page 27 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question # 3: Why do intimate couples cheat on each other, divorce or separate?  How does one suddenly fall out of love?  What are the secrets to marital success?  What do you need to do to keep your love growing stronger, even in tough times?  You are missing a lot!  Read the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #4: Why do many people keep on repeating the same mistakes in marriage?  What are the 9 commonly believed myths in marriage?  Read page 33 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #5:  What decision-making tool do you use to tell whether s/he is the right person for you as a lifetime lover?  A tool that helps you to foresee the future; a tool that helps you to minimize the uncertainties which could jeopardize your marital success!  See page 162 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #6:  What techniques do smart people use in managing the risks and uncertainties during the pre-wedlock period?  Learn the secrets.  Read page 125 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #7:  What are the common unacceptable habits that cause marital failure?  How do you identify them?  Read page 137 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #8:  What is the single most important factor to consider in choosing a lifetime lover?  Why is it important?  How do you tell the difference?  Read page 91 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #9:  What are the critical factors to evaluate in determining whether you are on or off track to your dreamed destiny?  See page 181 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #10:  What are the advantages and disadvantages of using a Prenup?  Yes, disadvantages?  Learn more from other users’ lessons.  Read pages 127 – 130 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #11:  What are the 11 things that people fear when they are dating?  How do you overcome this fear?  Read pages 116 – 125 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #12:  What are the 10 important things you must do before you start dating?  Read pages 120 – 124 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #13:  How do you develop your marital risk control and risk tolerance zones?  Read page 125 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #14:  How do you tell whether the decision is from your inner person or outer person?  This is a master secret you have to learn to guarantee your success!  Read pages 63 – 72 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #15:  What do you need to do to re-invent yourself to create a more fulfilling love relationship?  You will be in for a pleasant surprise.  Read pages 73 – 85 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #16: “How can two walk together if they are not equally matched” (Amos 3:3). Okay, what are you supposed to match?  How do you do it?  You have to know.  It is smarter to learn how to match, than to delegate this responsibility to some other third party.  Read pages 86-110 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #17:  Why is it important to use the Smart Lover’s Exit Strategies? Read page 141 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #18:  Why is it important to use the Smart Lover’s Exit Strategy Flow Chart in the dating stage?  See page 144 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #19: What are the 14 questions you must answer to save yourself from falling in love with the person who is not right for you for the long term?  Read page 152 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #20:  What are the unique advantages of managing marital risks using the Smart Lover’s Exit Strategy Flow Chart?  See page 154 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question # 21:  What are the critical steps that must never be ignored or taken for granted in choosing a lifetime lover?  What are the 12 major benefits of using the 10 Step Smart Lover’s Model in CHOOSING a Spouse?  See page 158 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #22: What is the purpose of Step # 1?  Why you should care; and what you need to do in step #1?  How do you create your blueprint to success in your love relationship? See page 164 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #23: How do you design the profile of the person you want as your ideal lifetime lover?  This is your time to learn this process protocol.  Read page 165 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #24:  What are the most important things you must do on your first date, to ensure that you do not waste time with an impostor who is going to lie, and ruin your quality of life?  Read page 172 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #25:  What do you look out for on a follow-up date, to evaluate your whether s/he is ideal for you or not?  Read page 176 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #26:  How do you get total disclosure from him/her on these follow up dates?  Learn the strategies on page 181 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #27:  Why is the “timing” element essential before you make your final decision to commit your love to her/him?  Read page 185 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #28: Why should you commit?  What is the purpose? How to do it right!  What are the benefits of commitment?  Read page 190 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #29:  You have committed your love to her/him.  What do you need to do to stay victorious in your love relationship?  See page 191 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #30: What are the 15 success mindsets to possess in order to become a Better Spouse, to guarantee a great love relationship?  See page 194 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage, and Listen to this audio-book How to Keep Your Lover Successfully.

Question #31: What are the killer words you must never say in your love relationship?  Which are magic words?  How do you say them, and where should they come from?  What are the best techniques of effective communication in love?  See page 201 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #32:  Learn this extra secret to help you in growing your love relationship successfully.  See page 203 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #33: Who are you modeling from to enrich your love relationship, and to BECOME THE BEST LOVER TO YOUR SPOUSE?  See page 217 – 218 in the 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage.

Question #34:  Is there a formula for success in creating a love relationship that lasts the test of time?  YES!  If you digest the insights in this book, you will realize that marriage is all predictable.  You can foresee it all.  You will not be surprised!  You can create ALL THE SUCCESS you want!  If you are “visual”, please come to my free seminars, I will show you how the process works.  You can create the kind of love life you want, and you will be glad you did.

My mission is to empower you to get all the solutions to the puzzles in building a rock solid love relationship.  Now is your time, to build a Strong Love Relationship, to say YES to your dream, and to make this the turning point of your life.  You have waited enough.  Put these skills to work.  Start winning today.  There is no time like the present.  Don’t miss out on these new decision-making skills.  Reserve your copies today at http://shop.bestlovingskills.com/.  It is a winning decision.  This is your moment to win.

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                             ©Alex Mugume 2005, Building Joyful Families, Chicago, IL